Know the difference between "somebody you Love"
and "somebody you Like"

In front of the person you like, your heart
beats
faster.
But in front of the person you love, you get
happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems
like spring.
But in front of the person you like, winter is
just beautiful winter.
If you look into the eyes of the one you like,
you blush.
But if you look into the eyes of the one you
love, you smile.
In front of the person you like, you can't say
everything on your mind.
But in front of the person you love, you can.
In front of the person you like, you tend to get
shy.
But in front of the person you love, you can
show
your own self.
You can't look straight into the eyes of the one
you like.
But you can always smile into the eyes of the
one
you love.
When the one you love is crying, you cry with
them.
But when the one you like is crying, you end up
comforting.
The feeling of love starts from the eye
But the feeling of like starts from the ear.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like,
all you need to do is cover your ears.
But if you try to close your eyes,
love turns into a drop of tear and
remains in your heart forever...
Posted by iggy_boy on April 14, 2004 at 03:45 PM | SpEaK oUt!!!!
Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we
fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss ouon so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.

Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will
find rewarding happinesss not with man you love but the man who loves you more. The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your being. To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare you away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never giveenough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a partof our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry
for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in
love. Cry if you have to, but make it sure that tears wash away the
hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of
yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is though everything is a miracle.
Posted by iggy_boy on March 5, 2004 at 02:57 PM | 3 slanderer
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